By: Daisy Surjo Vergara, LMHC
Noticing more meltdowns, overwhelm, or repeated behaviors in your child this spring? The end of the school year can be a lot for kids. Child behavior therapy Renton can help families understand what may be underneath these behaviors and support children in building new skills.
You might be noticing more lately…
You might be seeing more meltdowns.
More pushback.
More irritability over small things.
Even in a child who was doing okay before.
It can feel confusing.
Nothing major has changed… but something feels off.
This time of year is harder on kids than most people expect.
Why this time of year feels harder
As the school year winds down, a lot is happening all at once.
Demands are higher.
Schedules are fuller.
Transitions are coming.
Kids are:
- finishing projects
- managing social dynamics
- adjusting to longer days and more stimulation
- anticipating changes in routine
Even if they can’t explain it, their nervous system feels it.
Their capacity is lower…
even when expectations are still high.
What overwhelm can look like in kids
Overwhelm doesn’t always look like “anxiety.”
It can look like:
- bigger reactions over small things
- irritability or snapping quickly
- shutting down or withdrawing
- avoiding school or activities
- needing more reassurance or closeness
This isn’t random behavior.
It’s often a child whose system feels overloaded and doesn’t yet have the tools to manage it.
What actually helps right now
You don’t need to fix everything.
But small shifts can make a real difference.
Lower expectations (even temporarily)
This is not the season to push harder.
Focus on what matters most and let the rest be “good enough” for now.
Keep routines steady where you can
Predictability helps kids feel safe.
Even small routines—like bedtime, meals, or after-school rhythm—can anchor them.
Build in quiet time
Kids need space to decompress.
This doesn’t have to be structured.
Even 10–15 minutes of calm, low-stimulation time can help reset their system.
Focus on connection before correction
When a child is overwhelmed, behavior is not the starting point.
Connection is.
You might say:
“Something feels hard right now, huh?”
That moment of feeling understood often lowers the intensity faster than correction alone.
When it may be more than seasonal stress
If what you’re seeing is:
- happening often
- getting stronger over time
- or starting to affect school, friendships, or daily life
…it may be time to look a little deeper.
Early support can make a meaningful difference, especially before patterns become more ingrained.
For more information about children’s mental health, the CDC offers helpful guidance for families.
You don’t have to figure this out alone
At Ohana Behavioral Health in Renton, we specialize in supporting children and families navigating anxiety, overwhelm, and emotional regulation.
We serve families across the Eastside and Washington through in-person care and telehealth.
If your child feels more overwhelmed right now, there’s a reason.
And support can help.
